Music Bridges The Gap

Have you seen kids light up when a One Direction/Justin Bieber/Taylor Swift song is played? Can you believe elementary age kids sing right along? What about parents who automatically start singing along when an ‘Nsync or Backstreet Boys song is played?

 

The creative crew at Southside Baptist Church in Warner Robins, Georgia picked up on it.

 

Their team thought; what if we were to leverage that love for and familiarity of music with the monthly values that they talk about in church and their neighboring elementary schools center their culture around?

 

Before long, they created songs and videos that parody popular songs. These parodies are re-written to emphasize each month’s value.  They were AMAZED at the response.  Parents were replaying these videos at work for co-workers to see, and passing them along on social media sites. Kids were playing them over and over again.

 

The Children’s Ministry team began providing those public schools with a secular monthly School XP production using their videos within the assembly.  With the addition of their music, the values “stick” a little more and in their town alone, over 1000 kids are signing along to the music videos and learning through the XP monthly assemblies.

 

In the true act of giving, the team at Southside Baptist Church shared their fun work with Core Essential Values. Now hundreds of schools across the country have access to another entertaining way to have the monthly value stick! In fact, they’ve passed the 100,000 view mark!

 

Thanks to the generosity of these community partners, their 2-3 minute videos help give schools across the world the ability to influence their culture.

 

Thanks to Drew Cook and Matt Walls at Southside Baptist Church in Warner Robins, Georgia for bridging the gap and entertaining us all.

 

View April (Friendship: spending time with someone you trust and enjoy) and May’s (Patience: waiting until later for what you want now) music video for yourself and click here to the link that connects you to all the monthly videos.

A Scenic Overlook, and a true story.

Core Essential Values has recently introduced a NEW Middle and High School program called Re:Connect. This program equips schools (and their community volunteers) to let students lead a movement in their own culture, using our common language of a value and its simple definition as a basis. This guest post is a true story from one Re:Connect facilitator.

 

We have known Alicia for a couple of years now, and we kept hearing things from people like, ‘If you knew what she used to be like,’ and, ‘Wow, she has changed.’

Alicia lives with her mother, along with three other siblings, all from different fathers (she never has had a relationship with her own father, who lives in a different state and battles drug addiction).
She tells story after story about being outspoken, ‘sucked into drama,’ and a fighter. She picked fights for no reason, or for big reasons – like comments about her weight, hair, and skin color. During her sophomore year of high school, she was involved in a big fight – a huge fight.

As a result, she was suspended from school and unable to attend various extra-curricular activities, including school dances.

When we looked for kids to help us get our crazy idea off the ground, we asked her to join to our group (fresh off her fight and suspension). At the first meeting, we faced a group of 40 eager but skeptical students. They were diverse enough in age, race, and socio- economic status that they didn’t even all know each other.

In that meeting, I said something like this: ‘You guys need to understand that you won’t see results from the efforts we are asking you to put in this year. You are planting seeds for future students, for other years. I hope you can commit to helping us see this through, even if the rewards won’t be yours.’

Alicia was a junior, sitting in the back of the room.

A year later, as we met with a new group of kids wanting to join our group, we asked if there was anything any of the returning members wanted to add. Alicia’s hand shot up from the back of the room.

‘I have something to say. Last year, you told us that we wouldn’t see a difference, that change would come later. Well, you were WRONG. This place is better, it is different, it has changed, and we helped make that happen!’

Two weeks later, Alicia was named homecoming queen.

 

Learn more about the program.

Team Effort

You might not put churches and schools together as team partners — but it’s becoming a powerful way to impact kids and families. Macon-Hall Elementary, just outside of Memphis, Tennessee, has reaped huge rewards because of their partnership with neighboring Heartsong Church.

Three years ago, Stephanie Behymer, the Director of Children’s Ministries at Heartsong, reached out to the school to see how they might help. After a discussion with the principal, the church offered to do a School XP assembly. Once a month, a small group of encouraging volunteers and staff, with the name Virtue Quest, entertain the whole school around the monthly value word and definition. The faculty and staff of Macon Hall also used the Core, K-5th Grade, program to reinforce the value and definition throughout the month. The church even sends a group of volunteers (Virtue Quest Readers), to the school to read  the value book selections to all Kindergarten – 3rd grade classrooms – that’s over 350 kids!

The doors opened wider.

Recently, in addition to performing their regular School XP assemblies, the church began a free tutoring and mentoring program! Macon-Hall Elementary began referring students to the church’s program and they use the common language of the value and definition throughout their time with the students.

It hasn’t stopped there either. The tutoring and mentoring program is based in a Virtue Quest house on the church’s campus. Donations have taken care of chairs, desks, curriculum, money to pay the tutoring director, etc. The school ordered some educational curriculum to use during the tutoring times. When the school had an in-service day, the principal required all the teachers (over 100) to tour the Virtue Quest house.

Enough? Don’t count on it. This partnership is strong. The church also started a free clothing closet for families in need that attend the school. Set in a portable classroom on the school’s campus, church and school families are contributing new and gently used clothes, coats, blue jeans, and hats/gloves. They named the clothing closet, the “Wolves Wardrobe,” after the school’s mascot.

Combining these two strong organizations has proven to do more than either one could’ve done alone. Our hats are off to both Macon-Hall Elementary, Virtue Quest, and Heartsong Church for proving just that.

A Team Effort

 

Honesty in High School

Take off your mask! This “reverse” Harlem Shake starts with the masks we wear to cover up or hide our true selves…then cuts loose with who we HONESTLY are!
Honesty – choosing to be truthful in whatever you say and do!
Dance your REAL dance!

Interested in having your middle or high school students play out the values in their school? Find out about our new program, Re:Connect.

Honesty: One Square at a Time

4th Grade Student Self Portrait

We welcome a new blog writer, Mr. R!                                                                                  Mr. R is an elementary art teacher with a fun blog of his own. It probably was the name of his blog that first attracted us to him — “My Messy Art Room.” Periodically, Mr. R will share his ideas and his kids’ art work to further inspire you to make the monthly value VISIBLE in your school too! Enjoy his blog as well: http://mymessyartroom.blogspot.com

“I have used the value words from Core Essentials and was given the opportunity to utilize them in my art classroom and throughout my lessons — and to share with others!
One of the words was Honesty: Choosing to be truthful in whatever you say and do. After talking with my 4th grade students, we decided that a self-portrait is one of the most honest things that can be created in Art. When creating a self-portrait, you really have to be honest with yourself because there is no changing what you look like.
And, as it turns out, it just so happens that our librarian has a really great book on Chuck Close (for those of you who may not know, he is known for doing portraits and self-portraits). The book is titled, Chuck Close: Face Book. My students and I looked at his book for our inspiration.

We started our project using a grid system. They used 9″x12″ white paper and a ruler and made a 1-inch grid and outlined it with a Sharpie. Then they started to draw their self-portraits. I had them create a line drawing of their face. Then, I asked the students to be honest with themselves and think about the things that are important to them in their daily lives. I asked them to turn each grid square into a letter that would make up a word (I asked that the examples they used not be materialistic items).
I am posting a couple of the best examples so far, and when the portraits are finished, I will post them again. Thanks for looking!”

Promise for PEACE: in High School

Students at Richmond High School in Richmond, Indiana, have been showing how the Core Essential Values play out in their 1600-student school. Their influence team of students invited others to make a promise for PEACE: proving you care more about each other than winning an argument.

Richmond High School has been a 2-year pilot school for the soon to be released, Re:Connect program from Core Essential Values.

PEACE Out

EVERY faculty or staff member in a school is OVERLOADED with tasks. Laura McCain, a counselor at Highland Elementary in Owensboro, Kentucky, has taken our program and condensed some ideas for her teachers. Below is her “Peace Out” email to faculty. In essence she’s customizing it for her school! Laura BELIEVES and SEES what a difference a values culture makes in school.

Thanks Laura!

We’d love to know how you deliver ideas and information in your school.

CATCHING KIDS SHOWING PEACE:
• One obvious way to catch peace in action is to insert yourself into conflict. We know this is typically easily found on the playground, in free-time activities, at the lunch table, etc. Guide students through the argument/situation and to a place of peace. Praise them for their use of the value.
• Have students help you “catch” other students. Demonstrate that when decisions are agreed upon or when things/ games/group assignments go well, it is primarily due to the participants’ devotion to peace. Ask them to help you catch others contributing to keeping the peace in their classroom. It may take some examples and debriefing on your part but once they get it you won’t be able to stop them!
• When a student is agreeable towards another student acknowledge their use of peace.
• If a child is obedient towards another teacher or grown up “catch” them displaying the value of peace.

Share with your class one afternoon or a FEW times this month:
PEACE VALUE VIDEO:

Some ideas for you this month:
• Draw a large peace sign on the board.
All month long write down the names of students you see choosing peace and the way that they modeled it.

• This month is Black History Month. Many individuals that we celebrate each Febru­ary were very committed to peace. Look up different historical figures in black history. Briefly read about them and determine if and how they demonstrated peace.
There is always a peaceful way to make a change and a not-so-peaceful way. Who gets to decide which way we go?

• One way to keep peace is by complimenting oth­ers. It can remind us all to see the good in every­one.

• What are some examples of good compliments?
Let’s challenge each other this week to each compli­ment a different person every day.

• Mother Theresa once said “Peace begins with a smile.” What do you think that means?”
Allow students to respond. Students can create their own slogans by finishing the phrase
“Peace be­gins with __________.”

• Can you imagine what the world would be like if people cared more about each other than winning an argument? Let’s start here!
Have students brainstorm how their class, lunch or recess would be different!

• Sometimes you need to practice peace.
Have students role play how to be a peacemaker in the midst of an argument. Have a discussion about how easy or hard it is to be a peacemaker.
What techniques do they use to diffuse an argument?

Intermediate:
Discuss this quote by Mahatma Gandhi— “An eye for an eye ends up mak­ing the whole world blind.”

Showing DETERMINATION

In honor of DETERMINATION (deciding it’s worth it to finish what you started) and the animal of the month, McCall Elementary School students are practicing what they’ve learned about the value this month by trying to adopt 6 penguins at the Ft. Worth Zoo.

The students have already adopted 4 and have almost made our goal in money donations to adopt 2 more! The students promise not to stop what they have started until they reach their goal!

Great things are happening at McCall because “what begins here changes the world!”

Shannon Reynolds
McCall Elementary Counselor
Willow Creek, Texas
Partnering with the Chick-fil-A of Weatherford, TX

Determination shown through "Penguin Power"

What I Am

Sometimes a two minute song sums it all up – especially with the help of Sesame Street. Discovering who you are meant to be so you can make a difference.

We hope you’ll share this fun song just like our friends at Bermudian Springs Elementary School in Pennsylvania shared with us!

From a Teacher: Chronicles of a FIRST YEAR Core Essentials School

Chronicles of a FIRST YEAR Core Essentials School: Follow their journey as they take an already invested group of educators and equip them with the common language and Core Essential tools to change the values culture! This post is written by Krystal Parker, a 5th grade teacher at LHE.

As this school year started I was very excited to be part of implementing Core Essentials in our building. I was excited that we would be using a values curriculum and that the language being used would be common throughout the school. I believe in the importance of teaching character education and as an educator I saw Core Essentials as an excellent tool for us to use. Core Essentials provides classroom teachers with easy to implement ideas and activities to focus on for each of the value words. In August, my students enjoyed learning about the Big 3. It was so exciting to hear the language of Core Essentials being used by my fifth graders. Often times I would hear them resolving minor conflicts with conversations that consisted of things like, “Are you treating her right?” or “I’m sorry I didn’t make a smart decision.” It was so encouraging to hear these things and know that their attitudes and the Big 3 were having a positive effect on their behavior. Continue reading